Every time you
walk past a teenage boy you will probably smell a scent of deodorant. It seems
adverts for men deodorant spray perfumes are
working extremely well on adolescent boys as it is
widely used in teenagers nowadays. In addition to this behavioral problem,
there are other dangerous trends among teenagers that are badly in need of
parents’ attention.
Teen boys’ overuse
of perfumes is now causing problems in schools. As the new school semester
begins, so to does a new problem for administrators. The overpowering fumes
from young males who’ve doused themselves in deodorant spray. The heavy scent
use is particularly problematic for people with asthma or other respiratory
issues. It’s reached the level where the school board will be voting next week
on whether to ban the use of such perfumes and institute a “zero scent” policy.
Besides this overusing
deodorant spray, other dangerous behavioral problems should also be found out
and corrected by parents. Some of the most common behavioral problems in
children include temper tantrums, not following directions, whining, fighting
with siblings or other children, breaking rules and talking back.
Parents have the
ability to shape their children's behavior towards both good and bad results.
What you can do to
break teenager’ bad habits if your child is having behavioral problems at school
1. Choose a
suitable way before teaching your child. Try ignoring the annoying behavior. Your
child will probably outgrow the habit with time.
2. Praise your
child for good behavior. Catch your child being good, and tell them you
noticed. Giving a lot of attention may actually encourage the behavior.
3. If there are
lots of behaviors you want to change, start by focusing on one or two of the
most bothersome or dangerous ones. Don't try to make too many changes all at
once.
4. Try to figure
out what may be making your child stressed, and help them deal with it. Give
your child chances to talk to you about things that might be worrying them.
5. Let your child
make decisions whenever possible, by giving them acceptable choices. This will
help your child feel in control, reducing stress and frustration.
6. Redirect your
child and help them find a better place, or better way to do what they are
trying to do. Use natural or logical consequences for problem behavior.
7. Be patient—it
may take time for you to see results. And keep firm and kind. Follow through
every time on the natural or logical consequences.
8. Have a few
positively stated rules, and explain the reasons behind them. Make sure your
child understands the results of breaking the rules.
In a word,
teenagers’ growth up should get more attention from parents. As teenagers’ overusing
of body deodorant spray is dangerous for their
health. Parents have responsibilities and obligations to shape their children’s
behaviors and habits into correct direction.
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